Just want to take a look? Or interested in SurayeSwipe just to be social and meet new people with your friends on Meetups?
Secret Mode allows you to look at profiles privately without being seen. You can look around and only make your profile public in Dating if and when you are ready.
And while in Secret Mode you may still lead or join your friends in a group for a Meetup or post or respond to a Meetup as an individual.
But all Meetups are public and your profile is visible in any Meetup postings while active and to all individuals in your Meetup matches.